I'm a lurker and now that I have a log in, I'm (apparently) brave enough to be 'out'.
I'm blueberry pie; well that's what I wanted to be only that name was taken so I'll settle for blueberry5. My fav.
A little about me: 44, married to a really great guy who is 54. You might want to remind me that I once said he was really great. We have a 4 year old son and we've been trying for the last 2 years to give him a sibling. My son was born without ivf.
I'm awaiting a DE FET in the next month or two.
Back to my question:
I sometimes wonder if I will love this DE child as much as I love my son. Has anyone ever wondered about this kind of thing? I think I will, because I just adore my son's little friends and secretly wish I could adopt them! If it were only that easy!
But when I think of DE I wonder if I will be jealous of the attention he/she receives from my husband. He's a wonderful father and I wouldn't want it any other way but I sometimes have a bit of fear about whether I'll love my second child as much.