I have been wondering if I could ever love a second child as much as I love my first child, who is from DE! I can't imagine loving another human being as much as I love my son. People tell me you will love your second child just as much as your first and I believe them. So, to answer your question, I really don't think it's going to matter to you how this child was conceived because it will be YOUR child, and once you hold that little angel in your arms and he/she looks into your eyes, you'll be a goner!!