You mentioned that what might happen is a m/c if you got pg at 45, maybe and maybe not...and that it wouldn't be a big setback if that happened. My problem is that a m/c was a big setback, a few months at least (waiting waiting waiting, testing, D&C, recovery, more waiting, healing, needing 2 natural normal cycles, risking scar tissue, not to mention emotional impact and grieving). I guess most of the time the natural pregnancies fizzle out pretty quickly as chemical pgs with absolutely no down time, but m/cs can also be drawn out and derail your other plans.
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