I just think the risk of them finding out some other way is great and it would be very confusing.
Even my kid talks about 'secrets' and is she adopted (LOL she is the spitting image of my husband)...
It's something that a kid would want to know. I just wouldn't be able to not tell...
I do see the arguments on both sides. But I could not not tell.
It would be tempting to not tell and it will be hard to introduce it (if I get lucky enough to get pg this way!!)
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