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Heart shattered need help

May 2 2011 at 7:16 PM
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Tomorrow is my beta and I poas today and it was negative. Seeing it hit home this did not work. I am beyond despair. After being diagnosed with pof this was suppose to be my magic bullet. A few different REs just said, all you need is donor eggs. I had faith, my hope was resolved. I accepted things in my heart giving up my genetic link and just being a mom and having a family. Things are crashing down like a house of cards.
Everything in my life I have had to work hard for but I have already been thru so much. I am starting to believe maybe God just don't want us to have a family. My husband is ready to move on to FET but if fresh didn't work why would frozen?

My follow up with the doctor is scheduled for Wednesday, it is a phone conversation what should I ask? I am a complete mess I can't even think straight. Is it worth to even bring up could it be anything they are not picking up?


 
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  1. Hang in there. My fresh failed and I had success on the frozen - Renata on May 2, 2011
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  3. HANG IN - Malory on May 2, 2011
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  5. yes, hang in there newbie. (success ment) - cotton on May 2, 2011
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  7. I'm sorry, Newbie... - CatMama75 on May 2, 2011
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  9. Newbie - THK on May 2, 2011
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  11. So sorry - ALM on May 2, 2011
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  13. As the other ladies have said, I am hoping that the Beta trumps the hpt - Veesha on May 3, 2011
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  15. Nurse I talked to today said sometimes FETs do better than fresh.... Nt - K on May 3, 2011
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  17. Dear Newbie some advice from a veteran (baby ment) - THK on May 3, 2011
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  19. stay on those meds! - Brenda on May 3, 2011
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  21. Thinking of you today Newbie..... - Mrs. M on May 3, 2011
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  23. I'm sorry - Leigh888 on May 3, 2011
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  25. Fresh was chemical, FET (success mentioned) - Anonymous on May 3, 2011
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  27. I know it's hard! (child ment, preg ment) - scubagrl on May 3, 2011
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  29. Keep your eyes on the prize, sweetie. - Maggie in VA on May 3, 2011
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  31. Hey Newbie - in my thoughts today.... - Malory on May 3, 2011
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  33. ((Hugs)) - New2011 on May 3, 2011
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  35. aw, I'm really sorry - Orchid on May 3, 2011
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  37. Thinking of you! Nt - K on May 3, 2011
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  39. I'm sorry, and there is still hope (preg, loss and baby mentioned) - Fredricka on May 4, 2011
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