they don't have to be from overseas, to take a donor embryo. They could very well be local. I can't assume that EVERYone who would take a donor embryo is a nice person who just wants to love a child.
I've known families who really wanted to adopt a child, but they were abusive to their adopted child. My next door neighbor that I grew up with, for example. Yes, they really wanted a child and had money and means to raise him, but they would also hit him. That is why I would rather KNOW who the donor embryos are going to.