mine resisted and then got excited about itMay 13 2011 at 4:31 PM
|Chris (no login)|
Response to Anyone have a husband reluctant to do DE?
He was resistant but I knew him well enough to know that he would get over it....
I married you to have kids with you...blah blah blah
I want our children to look like you too..yada yada yada
Once I started showing him pictures of girls and similarities to me, he started to warm up. Once we decided on a donor and moved forward, he actually got excited. That is the most positive I have seen him in a long time about any of our IVFs. Unfortunately, I have to give him the bad news that I had a chemical. We still have three on ice so at least we have that.
Long and short of it..he will definitely get over it. Just make up your mind and move forward with him grumbling a little.
Hell, my sister's husband was completely against having a child until he bawled like a baby when he saw his son for the first time on the sonogram!!!
- Thanks, Chris - SilverBelle on May 14