"I think it would be possible to be "no tell" with anyone other than your OB. The OB can't tell anyone about it due to privacy concerns."
yeah right!!! Hippa or not, there are so many people with access to your files in the OB office and if you think you aren't being talked about, think again!! All of my nurse friends and even several doctor friends talk openly about their patients, call them crazy, give details of their identity, ALL THE TIME. If you are seriously no-tell, then do not believe for one second that doctor-patient, nurse-patient, lab tech-patient confidentiality is golden.