Why would you accuse me of doing that when I have done no such thing -- and using "anon" while doing it?
It is easy to get focused on one thing that probably is not the cause and to beat yourself up over it. I have extensive personal experience with multiple miscarriages so I am sharing medical knowledge that I have gleaned from all that experience, and doing the opposite of what you have accused me of doing. I'm actually attending very closely to her real concerns (she wants to know what caused this loss) and I hope she finds answers. I hope that the information I have given will also give her some ideas about questions she can ask her doctor.