Ah, if only it were so! My twins fight from the moment they wake up in theMay 27 2011 at 6:02 PM
|Daisy (Login loochieuk)|
Response to I agree totally with your friend.
morning til bedtime. They are 4.5 and they have only just started to play together for a short period. Not much playing together at 2 (which is pretty unheard of with any child let alone twins)! I have to supervise them constantly otherwise they wreck the place!
Not to put you off, but I do think you have to be prepared for the unbelievable relentlessness of twins. I am on my own as well, so that is a double whammy!!
I absolutely love my babies and there is a certain element of relief that I was lucky enough to have a healthy boy/girl with no NICU time etc., but I do miss out on individually caring for a singleton... every bit of your attention is shared for every thing that you do...
BUT I do feel I can't be too strident about only transferring one because I understand the desire to increase the odds if having a baby if you can! I transferred 2 frozen day 3 embies and had twins and am now very glad I did because my journey was so hard to get a live birth, I don't think I would have ever tried again and I did want two children.
No one can ever prepare you for having children (1 or 2 at a time!).
Best of luck
|This message has been edited by loochieuk on May 29, 2011 5:30 AM|