What we're going through is a big deal but it is not understood by anyone who isn't going through it. It's really a kind of silent suffering. You go through so much and people don't get it. I'm not sure ANYONE gets it--even my husband, really.
One person besides him I told and she doesn't have kids or want them--and she absolutely positively does not get it.
No one else knows. That's often the case with lots of us. So we don't have any support from anywhere.
It is the hardest thing to feel so alone. You have to watch out for yourself. Others rarely understand. The pain is real, the loss is real--it's all so hard. So do what you need to do and don't think twice about it!