Pray that you and DH will is lined up together, this may mean finding some middle ground or it may mean one understanding the other more. So pray that way you will both enter the cycle agreeing on the decision that has been made. Also mention to DH that you are concerned his anxiety is interfering with success. If I were you I would be looking for a donor with your skin color. It may mean someone outside of Indian decent, but skin color was always my first factor and then I looked for other traits. I am praying for peace for you and DH and success finding the right donor, and success in conceiving.