As for your previous contract and your brother, the attorney--the statutes in CA are different than the statutes in many other states on third party reproduction. You do not want to use a CA contract in another state--legal and psych are two of my foot-stompers! These are not areas where you should try to cut any corners--
you need to be looking at the laws in your state and the clinic's state as well as the donor's state---
although, your brother may be able to do the whole attorney recommendation, fee-waiving thing!!