I am single, and this is 1st and probably only baby b/c I want to be able to care for him/her and provide well. Two is much more dicey single! That said, I do have 6 on ice. I'm a little over 8 weeks, and have 6 on ice. I'm highly considering giving a couple of these to one of the ladies on the Over 40 board that I've 'known' for a while. I know she's looking for dembie. I want to wait until I'm 12-14 weeks and have a clear scan before I do this. The person doesn't know/has no idea I'm thinking about this.
That said, what if motherhood is a breeze for me and I win the lotto?
I may want to use those 4 remaining for a sibling (assuming I gave 2 away) so I just don't know. At this point, I don't have to decide......but no, I don't think you want a bunch of frozens to worry about. Lots of worry and potential guilt there.