I think the price you rec'd was just for ivf costs. For our cycle in addition to clinic costs for ivf we paid $4,300 administrative fee to clinic, $5,000 to donor, $3,500 donor agency fee, $1,000 Atty fees for donor contract, approx. $4,000 for donor meds, and around $500 for my meds. When fresh cycle failed it was another $2,500 for FET. Embryo storage is $85 per month. We have only one frostie left from this cycle and have not had success yet (BFN on fresh tx and early m/c with FET). If the last frostie does not implant and grow we are moving on to the Shady Grove program mentioned by the pp.
In terms of picking a donor, I started with a list of agencies that my clinic gave me and then obtained access to donors and when we found a donor we liked we went with that agency. My experience was that the agency was very responsive prior to us deciding to use them and sending the payment. After the communication was not as timely and it was a little work on my end and from the DE coordinator at the clinic to get everything submitted so the cycle could be initiated.
Best of luck to you! You will find lots of support on this board.