Interesting, was wondering whether you might be reconsidering . . .August 19 2011 at 11:17 AM
|Maggie in VA (Login maggie1961)|
Response to Tough decisions...(bio child ment)- would love to hear your opinions...
Trying naturally. It just has all seemed so perverse to me that you aren't actually infertile but have had all these issues conceiving w/DE. Anyway, is this condition something that can be detected through amnio or CVS? If so, are you open to terminating? That sounds horrible, I know, but ultimately it's a question we all have to face if we get pg and the doctors know there is a problem. And it's different (to me, at least) if you know a child would face a great deal of pain and suffering if born (which isn't to say I would be ready to terminate under less compelling circumstances).
If this is a detectable illness, then yeah, I think I'd return to natural conception, b/c it sounds as though there's a great deal of doubt as to whether your daughter's condition was genetically transmitted. If not, then, well, maybe try a few more FET's?
I'm sorry this has all been so hard for you!
Maggie (in VA)
- Like many, we figured DE was a "sure thing" - bethphx on Aug 19
- Yeah, well, you had a lot better reason to think that than most . . . - Maggie in VA on Aug 19