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Let us talk about bding - argument with DH last night!

September 12 2011 at 7:36 AM
Aoife1  (Login aoife1)

 

I have to confess - I just don't like s*x anymore. Once we finally moved to DE I thought what is the point of it anyway happy.gif
I have just spent so many years ttc with OE, tracking temp, checking cm and then making sure we do the deed at optimum time of the month - as a consequence, the fun just went out if it. Every time we do it, it reminds me of all the months and years of failure.

When we moved to DE our co-ordinator put me on bcp's straight off. I have either been on bcp or taking lupron since March of this year, through two failed cycles. And I am back on bcp now in advance of a possible third cycle in November (waiting to confirm everything). So you can hear it here first ladies - I haven't had s*x since February - yes that's absolutely true - and I don't miss it one jot - that is also absolutely true.

So hubby is getting a bit annoyed about all this, and last night I decide to give in. But before we get to it, he starts talking about it nearly being a year's anniversary since we did it. We argue because he exaggerates EVERYTHING and since I was the one doing all the work for all these years, I actually have a record of exactly what day and what time of the day we last did it and the time before that and the time before that and so on. By the end of the argument there was definitely no mood for it - so I still have not had s*x since February and I still don't miss it one jot! happy.gifhappy.gifhappy.gif

I suppose I'll have to give it up soon though, for the sake of our relationship, pah!

 
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  1. Understand completely. On the other hand (pg ment.) we can't have - Kacee on Sep 12, 2011
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  3. Charting hee hee - minniet on Sep 12, 2011
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  5. one idea I liked - Maggie on Sep 12, 2011
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  7. Hope this won't be viewed as politically incorrect . . . - Maggie in VA on Sep 12, 2011
    1. I wish we had "like" button as on FC:) Agree with Maggie, - LizLA on Sep 12, 2011
    2. "Like" ETA - BBG on Sep 12, 2011
      1. BBG and Maggie are really right on - minniet on Sep 13, 2011
      2. You all might be right, but... - Renata on Sep 13, 2011
        1. Renata, I don't think we are in disagreement - BBG on Sep 13, 2011
          1. Thx BBG - Renata on Sep 14, 2011
     
  8. Well...(kids mentioned) - Renata on Sep 12, 2011
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  10. Same here - Blushing Over Here on Sep 13, 2011
    1. Ladies, please be aware . . . - BBG on Sep 13, 2011
      1. Very wise words, and more explicit than I've been . . . - Maggie in VA on Sep 13, 2011
     
  11. IMHO - THK on Sep 13, 2011
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  13. OMG!! I have the opposite problem... - Issla on Sep 13, 2011
    1. Yeah, some of that going on for me, too . . . - Maggie in VA on Sep 13, 2011
      1. Don't be afraid to try some testosterone! - BBG on Sep 13, 2011
        1. Does it require a prescription? - Maggie in VA on Sep 13, 2011
          1. There are some OTC testosterone "booster" products - BBG on Sep 13, 2011
            1. Where is the edit function? Gah - that should be "bug" in ear - BBG on Sep 13, 2011
    2. Some testimonials from male friends about what helped them - Leeba on Sep 14, 2011
      1. Thanks! - Maggie in VA on Sep 15, 2011
     
  14. THANKS ALL OF YOU! - Aoife1 on Sep 13, 2011
    1. Sitting at my desk chortling . . . - Maggie in VA on Sep 13, 2011
    2. I'm glad you guys like my "test"! - Renata on Sep 13, 2011
     
  15. Interesting posts - Hudson on Sep 13, 2011
    1. Some practical ideas . . . (TMI!) - BBG on Sep 13, 2011
     
  16. Re: Let us talk about bding - argument with DH last night! - anon for this! on Sep 13, 2011
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  18. Just want to make a couple quick comments, plus on the male side look above - Leeba on Sep 14, 2011
    1. Leeba, great posts - BBG on Sep 14, 2011
     
  19. As a single person... - Maya3 on Sep 15, 2011
    1. my 2 cents - mary on Sep 17, 2011
     
  20. I'd give anything - CrazyLady on Sep 24, 2011
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