Just want to make a couple quick comments, plus on the male side look aboveSeptember 14 2011 at 5:07 PM
|Leeba (Login Leeba)|
Response to Let us talk about bding - argument with DH last night!
DH and I have had in our long relationship a couple l..o..n..g periods of abstinence, I won't go into detail but longer than what you are saying. Mostly due to medical and major life issues. The abstinence takes on a life of its own and needs to be jump started to get past it.
In every case, I have needed to rent a hotel room essentially to get back to it, something completely out of the routine. It was stressful for both of us, but very gratifying for both at the end.
Finally I cannot say enough about the effect of estrogen. Having been in and out of menopause for years because of treatment for br@ast c@ncer, the brief periods of estrogen at the beginning of cycling have been like a holiday for me, suddenly having woken up short bouts of h*rn*ness, as compared with the years long drought of interest. It was completely obvious the difference. I don't think it's OK for me to take any kind of hormone treatments although just having this subject come up again gets me to thinking about speaking to my doctor just to make sure.
- Leeba, great posts - BBG on Sep 14