I have been watching this thread and wondering just what to say. I hope I never get to the point where I don't enjoy anymore. Sex has always a huge stress reliever, comfort and and bonding for DH and I. The times when we weren't allowed to BD after transfers were horrible for us. And the comfort it brought me after failures and losses couldn't have been replaced by anything. We were haveing sex again 5 days after my surgery and DC. I just could do wothout the imtimacy of being in my DH arms. As I stare menopause in the face at 52 I am worried that I could come to feel this way. I really hope not.