thankyou so much for everyone's responses....I felt so down this morning, but not now.
I did cancel today, but talked with another gyn at the same place. They have such a great reputation, which is why I would like to go there. I just think maybe my particular gyn. and I aren't on the same page....plus, I had been with her so long, I guess I just didn't consider any other alternative.
I got a very good response from the new gyn's office, BUT I am going to keep in mind the things everyone mentioned and also stay open to going somewhere else if I'm successful (which I will probably do if I don't feel at ease here). (Right now, this is just for the preliminary exam)
Once again, thankyou to everyone....I feel that I learned a ton just through everyone responses.
Love to all,