I personally don't know anyone with bipolar. I am single doing this and I started to worry that would I always be looking for this in the child. Than would I worry that if it does develop, I may not be able to handle it due to me being old lady when it might appear. What do you think about all the noise on unprovens being a big risk. My other choice seems great, but unproven and 21-22 years old. I also read that young is great and young is not great. My clinic has awesome stats, so I believe they would know how to stim her.