as most of the respondents to you are.
It is MUCH easier to find donors in the US as they can be paid and anonymous. Or South Africa or Malyasia....
So even if you advertise or screen your cousins or friends to be donors while you wait for your sister to be ready, it may still take you three years. It took us two to eliminate all possible known donors and then get up the courage to advertise.
It was quick from then, but Ann at the clinic said our advertising was the most successful she had ever seen.
Not to put you off, just be aware that finding a donor is no walk in the park here. Two of my perfect looking friends who offered turned out to have high FSH as well...which eliminated them as candidates.
Two others thought they wanted to and then found they couldn't.
And we had six replies to our advert and only one was suitable....so it is quite a process.
That is the other reason I would urge you to start ASAP; it can take a LONG time!
keep us posted Emily.