This is all so helpful, thank you. I didn't want to feel like a snob, but as I was reading donor profiles, I really felt more comfortable with the ones who responded with correct grammar, spelling, etc. (probably has something to do with my profession as a writer!). I equated that with intelligence, right or wrong. I'm learning through all the responses that I may need to let go of some of my "Must Have's" and trust the process.