What if I'd thought they were not attractive people (I used donor embies)? What if seeing the pictures made me bypass the embryos? I'd like to think it would not have regardless of donor appearance but yes I probably am that shallow. And I would not have my wonderful, absolutely perfect for me kids now. I just see my kids when I look at them. Admittedly, I was worried I would have unattractive kids but that worry is long since history.