Im more a lurker than a poster, but saw your latest posts and decided to make contact. I'm also with Dr Toledo at RBA (hoping to cycle soon) and absolutely love him! He has been very positive so far, despite my lining issue... Regarding RBAs egg bank many requirements, it has been frustrating dealing with them, but I'm glad I'm done with all the testing and (almost) ready to cycle.
I asked my OB/GYN who referred me to a friend and I absolutely loved her! The perinatologist also thought it was strange that RBA would require a consultation with a perinatologist prior to pregnancy, but at the end I was happy I went to see her. She was very positive and said I was one of her healthiest patients! I'm in TN, so unfortunately cannot suggest anyone in NJ.
Just want to make contact and wish you tons of luck!