I am so deeply sorry that the betas are going down.
If and when you are ready, remember ONE THING. There was what is considered a technical pregnancy. I say this because your body is going in the right direction. Yes, this is heartbreaking and terrible at the moment; but take from it that in many cases it means the embryo and body were doing what they were meant to do, and it stopped at some point.
This just happened to my dear friend who has had multiple failures. This is what the doctor told her. So, she went to an immune specialist and got the clearance. Bottom line? it was probably for her, just not the right embryos. As we all know, that, is still the hitch in this medical science.
But the doctor told her to take heart, something did happen, the body wants to move forward. So please, please, try not to give up. Grieve, take your time, but DON'T GIVE UP. Because it is a numbers and a mental stamina game. (game,ha, that makes it sound like it's fun which it is not)
I am thinking of you both
|This message has been edited by birdy1600 on May 7, 2012 11:09 PM|