Guess I just wrote in haste because I get so tired of people in the tell camp being so convicted and constantly posting their views on these boards. I really can see both sides even though I'm no tell. I just got annoyed and frustrated and I apologize. I know these boards are supposed to be "support" boards, but I have really not found them too supportive of the no tell decision. It's probably best for me not to come here because it only frustrates me. Thank you.