BE proud that God and technology worked to let your child be a part of your family! I have 7 yr old twin girls from DE. They are a spitting image of the donor. They are beautiful. I kept all the info that they will need when they want or need it. They have seen the photo of the donor and asked who it was. I said she was the women that gave us the little eggs that turned into babies. when they get older I'm sure there will be tons of questions.. we told everyone. And still to this day people come up and say they look just like me! I do wish I had more info on the donor. Genetics you know play a big part of who they will grow up to be no matter how they are raised. Good luck & god's blessings to you and your family! Sarah aka "Fawn"