, following Maggie's post, is whether you would blame yourself if anything went wrong. For instance, I was advised to avoid intercourse in early pregnancy, not necessarily because it would cause m/c, but because, as the nurse put it, I might blame myself if I did have a m/c. Now, there's a range of safe practices (see thread on hair dye) within which I think each of us has to find our own comfort zone. For many of us, IF and TTC have ruled our lives for years. I think it's important to keep living your life while you're pregnant, with whatever modifications are necessary.
How's that for a noncommittal response?