I completely understand how you feel. It requires a tremendous amount of energy to move through all of the steps you have described. It is too much after the constant negative news. It is hard to pick yourself back up and take the energy and time (also $$$) to make the decisions and move forward.
I think that until you feel mentally and physically ready to do it, take the time you need. I know taking the time is frustrating too. It's almost like you have to do what you can do to survive this and somehow make it out to the other side.
You can contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org if you want to talk more.
I am sorry this is all so hard.