I found this board as well when I was debating about doing the donor egg process. I was 39, had 3 failed IUI's and then one failed OE IVF where it was determined that while I produced tons of eggs, they just weren't very good. After taking almost 8 months off to process everything (a break I really needed) I decided to go with donor egg and am now 32 weeks pregnant with one little babe. I feel lucky it worked on the first go, but my beta numbers were extremely low to begin with, so I wasn't that hopeful. Good luck and don't be afraid to post any questions you have as you begin this process. It can be scary and lonely to go through and it is so nice to have this support system.