they also did not tell me my donor's FSH. However, I got a reply back today and they said her FSH is "fine" and within their clinic screening standards. I was worried that they had not done an FSH test at all. We told the clinic we want the best possible donor, irrespective of anything else about the donor, and we don't care if donor looks like me or not. This donor has different hair/eye color than I do, which I don't care about anyway. So perhaps they did try to get the best donor they could find for me.