I hope you don't mind this question and please feel free to decline to answer if it is too personal. You mentioned to me in a post about a month ago that you also have a stepchild(ren) and that I will feel like the new baby is mine (thanks for your very kind post, btw!)
My question is, did having a baby with your DH improve your relationship with those stepchild(ren)? I can see being totally touched by the love beween the children develop and the family solidifying more. I can also imagine new complications arising.