but I know it's hard and I feel the same way. Now that I have pretty much given up on a biological child, (I'm 42) and moving on with donor egg or adoption, the anger has eased up a bit. I don't have any solutions but try not to be hard on yourself for feeling that anger! I think you are doing the right things by talking to a therapist and reminding yourself of the good things that you do have in your life.
Best of luck! I think we will feel so much better when we finally have our babies and we will definitely appreciate it because of what we had to go through.