Thank you for the kind words Raindrops1. I know - my best friend got pg at 46 **by accident** (which was very very hard to hear) during a casual hook-up. Another dear friend shocked me by telling me that her mom was 48 when she had her in the late 60s - it totally blew my mind. As Maggie from VA says, it does happen - but (long story short) that won't work for me. I'm just hoping DH agrees it will be safe enough to pursue!