Those thoughts made me sad as well when I thought of the DE factor.
My DE twins are 3 1/2 yrs old. My DD looks just like me and my DS looks like his father, my xDH. I've heard it from the beginning how she looks like me and our baby pictures are very alike. Granted, this isn't the case for everyone, but just know it does happen. Our babies sometimes will look like us. We do have quite the roll in growing our kiddos ya know (epigenetics).
Good luck on your cycle!!