Ladies, thank you so much for replying and your kind ideas.
Mary - I had not known of PVED - thank you will look at them.
RaineyCat - That is a good point you bring up about posting a wanted ad on Miracles Waiting. I will do that. I see too congratulations are in order!
Blessed Thistle - Congratulations on your babies. It is good to hear of success. Thank you also for the link.
Maggie - You raised things to consider I hadn't thought of. I am also excited to look at Barbados as an option.
Denise, Dee and Anon - Thanking you for your input re clinics for DE. It is good Dee to get a heads up from a lady who has looked for same.
I hope I can have success soon. This has been a long journey as it is for us all.