I don't think we would have been given brains, science, medicine, and parental desire, if we weren't meant to use it. I also think that this decision is in everyone's own heart. If the universe is whispering to you that you've done enough, and you accept that, then that's what's best for you. But if you hear "keep going," then that's what is meant to be. After multiple losses, I started praying for my desire to go away. I wasn't at all ready to accept not becoming a mom, but I thought if it's not meant to be, then my heart should be relieved from the strong desire I have to be a parent. But the more I prayed, the stronger my desire got. So, for me, I'm not ready to stop yet. But I honor anyone else who does so. If you count on your mom for support, I hope she is able to be there for you, whatever your decision is.
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