what embryologist said (this is weird), child ment.

We had a total of 9 embryos. The embryologist wanted to talk to me about the embryos and she showed me the photographs. She then said that she selected the best 3 for the fresh transfer....but the remaining embryos were "average" (her exact wording) and did I really want to freeze them? In other words, just discard the remaining ones, because that way I could start over with a new, fresh cycle the next time if necessary, without having to work through frozens. I thought that was so weird. No way, those are my embryos,I paid for them and want them!! I told her as long as the embryos are still growing, even if they are just average, I want them frozen. I also told her that my daughter came from a frozen "so-so" embryo that wasn't considered good enough for the fresh transfer.