OMG, I think it would be impossible to be at all rational in those moments. All we can then do is take some deep breaths and try to get through it.
I'm glad the transfer went through. Have a good trip home. Once you're home and settled and in the tww, I thought this the above post might be useful. And to anyone in the tww, as it really messes with us. Just thought of you, as I'm in the tww now, and it has been helpful.
Take good care, and fingers crossed for the best outcome!