So I recently underwent a FET that resulted in a chemical pg. We are entertaining foster adoption but I still can not let go of my goal of having another baby.
Here is where I need you ladies to help me decide which program at Shady Grove to entertain.
1) Shared Donor egg cycle w/ a 2 to 1 split for up to 6 fresh cycles and a money back guarantee after 6 failed fresh cycles for 37K
or
2) Shared Donor egg cycle w/ a 3 to 1 split for up to 6 fresh cycles and a 100% money back guarantee after 6 failed fresh cycles for 29K.
I was leaning towards the 2 to 1 split cycle as I thought it would be easier to do everything w/ the donor and only 2 recipients vs 3 recipients and all the coordination. I also thought it would be a quicker process than the 3 to 1 split.
However, a very trusted board member suggested the 3 to 1 split as their stats are 85% success after 3 cycles for either option. She also recommended the 3 to 1 split as we would have less frosties and less time to continue w/ a poor donor if that is the case. I would hate to have 5 or more FET to have to go through and fail before going onto another donor.
Anyways, I would love to hear all of ya'lls opinions and rational. FYI, I plan on eSET for either option as we love twins but in other people's families and I don't think my body likes twins due to my hx of losing them.
Thanks so much.
FB