Looking to Be a Mom Through DE

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  1. Questions SG & CNY, SART data? View entire thread! - Different Anon Poster on Jan 28
    1. Re: Questions SG & CNY, SART data? - DeeinNYC on Jan 28
      1. WOW - RBA - anon for this on Jan 28
        1. RBA - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 28
          1. This is still the price and Barge to Mrs McIrish - DeeinNYC on Jan 28
          2. Barge to McIrish - Bharani on Feb 5
      2. Dee - you're right. Thanks (nt) - anon on Jan 29
      3. that is scary - Dee on Jan 31
    2. CNY isn't all bad ladies...(success ment) - NOLA on Feb 1
      1. Re: CNY isn't all bad ladies...(success ment) - Anonymous on Feb 2
     
  2. Considering DE. What was the tipping point for you? View entire thread! - AC in Boston on Jan 28
    1. lots of things -- and I have no regrets (success and other thingsment) - Julie on Jan 28
    2. Hi AC. (DE and OE child ment) - Raindrops1 on Jan 28
    3. Feeling of my life being on pause, indefinitely, while it went on around me (success) - Kenny on Jan 28
    4. My thoughts - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 28
    5. Tipping Point (children mentioned) - MM on Jan 28
    6. I needed to think about it all the time - Orchid on Jan 28
    7. If you do OE IVF... - Cathy on Jan 28
    8. I was very similar to you... - karma on Jan 28
      1. Do you mind sharing some specifics? - AC in Boston on Jan 28
        1. sure - karma on Jan 28
    9. You Have to be Ready To Move on - DeeinNYC on Jan 28
    10. Wow! Thank you. This is so helpful. - AC in Boston on Jan 28
      1. A couple details - Orchid on Jan 28
        1. Also insurance - Orchid on Jan 28
          1. Ins cut-off for DE - AC in Boston on Jan 28
            1. It can--it goes by so fast! - Orchid on Jan 29
    11. Hi - Violet on Jan 28
    12. Tipped right over (kids ment) - Aufrecht on Jan 28
    13. Here are my thoughts on moving forward...m (oe ment/de ment/child ment) - Hope2009 on Jan 28
    14. Another Boston girl (success/baby ment) - Mrs. M on Jan 28
      1. this is so me right now - AC in Boston on Jan 29
        1. It is a process (success ment) - Mrs. M on Jan 31
    15. There was no tipping point (kids) - BlessedThistle on Jan 28
    16. What contributed to my shift...(DE and OE ment) - Renata on Jan 29
      1. Thank you - AC in Boston on Jan 29
    17. I'm late in responding - Al on Jan 29
      1. I tend to learn things the hard way too - AC in Boston on Jan 29
    18. my tipping points (toddler ment) - THK on Jan 30
    19. It was simple (children ment.) - Ariadne on Feb 1
      1. thank you - AC in Boston on Feb 1
     
  3. Some questions View entire thread! - Anon for now on Jan 26
    1. Jones? - Anon again... on Jan 26
      1. No stats - Mimi on Jan 27
      2. A little late in response... - Tracey on Jan 31
    2. I didn't go here - anonforthis on Jan 27
      1. RBA - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 27
        1. RBA requirements - Anon for now on Jan 28
          1. Re: RBA requirements-(preg mtd) - DeeinNYC on Jan 28
            1. RBA guarantee program - Antonialisa on Jan 28
    3. IRS and hardship withdrawals - Anon on Jan 27
      1. 401K - Anon for now on Jan 28
    4. Well, someone posted in a recent thead . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 28
      1. Talked to SG today - Anon on Jan 28
        1. Is it too personal to ask why? - Maggie in VA on Jan 28
          1. Its Ok - Anon for now on Jan 28
            1. In that case . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 29
              1. Don't want to wait - OE child mentioned - Anon for now on Jan 29
                1. Well, I didn't want to wait, either . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 29
                  1. Maggie - Thank you - Anon for now on Jan 29
                    1. Have a friend who did gastric bypass. - Maggie in VA on Jan 29
     
  4. Gearing up and freaking out(dd ment) View entire thread! - Lauranz on Jan 26
    1. Just to lean on us when you need to! :) - Margolis on Jan 26
      1. will do... - lauranz on Jan 27
    2. Re: Gearing up and freaking out(dd ment) - Eve on Jan 26
      1. thanks Eve... - lauranz on Jan 27
    3. I read.. - Al on Jan 26
      1. beautifully put Al.. - lauranz on Jan 27
        1. :) n/t - Al on Jan 27
      2. I like that, too - Dee on Jan 27
    4. Oh, friend (success ment.) - Ariadne on Jan 26
      1. Hugs gratefully received... - lauranz on Jan 27
    5. You've been through so much - thesameboat on Jan 27
      1. I'm afraid of jeopardising what we have.... - lauranz on Jan 27
    6. Laura, I'm amazed at your courage . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 27
      1. Well it's gearing up for number three actually... - Lauranz on Jan 28
     
  5. HSG for DE? View entire thread! - CocoBoston on Jan 24
    1. HSG - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
      1. I agree with Mrs McIrish - THK on Jan 24
      2. Thank you Mrs. McIrish (nt) - Anonymous on Jan 25
    2. Yes, absolutely do the HSG - Kenny on Jan 25
      1. Thank you Kenny (nt) - Anonymous on Jan 25
        1. From CocoBoston Not Anonymous! - Anonymous on Jan 25
    3. I had an HSG - Dee on Jan 25
    4. One of the first tests I had... (ectopic pg ment) - Jen in TN on Jan 25
    5. I wasn't required to get one... - Eve on Jan 26
    6. A DE program here requires it - AC in Boston on Jan 29
     
  6. What would you do ? Clinic or donor ? View entire thread! - Al on Jan 24
    1. Re: What would you do ? Clinic or donor ? - green.elephant on Jan 24
      1. Thanks :) - Al on Jan 25
    2. You didn't mention if donor is proven?.....nt - LizLA on Jan 24
      1. Just got donor history this morning. Do you think it's any good? - Al on Jan 25
        1. 10 frozen is amazing - Mimi on Jan 27
          1. Oh good ! - Al on Jan 28
        2. Sorry...no pregnancy for me its not proven. nt - LizLA on Jan 28
    3. clinic - THK on Jan 24
      1. thanks THK - Al on Jan 25
    4. Clinic (success ment.) - ks on Jan 25
      1. thanks ks :) - Al on Jan 25
    5. If you use ORM - Renata on Jan 25
      1. thanks so much Renata ! - Al on Jan 25
        1. I cycled in CA - Renata on Jan 26
          1. Likewise ! :) will keep you posted. n/t - Al on Jan 28
    6. Thoughts on ORM donor - DeeinNYC on Jan 26
      1. thanks heaps Dee :) - Al on Jan 26
    7. Hi Al - Violet on Jan 26
      1. Thanks Violet - Al on Jan 27
     
  7. Thank you and an update View entire thread! - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
    1. (success ment) - Erin on Jan 24
    2. Good luck & FX!! - DeeinNYC on Jan 24
      1. Good luck Mrs McIrish (success ment) - E&H on Jan 24
    3. Re: Thank you and an update - Quinn on Jan 24
    4. Everything crossed - Dixiechic on Jan 24
    5. Prayers, best wishes, good thoughts - Antonialisa on Jan 24
    6. Wishing you good news on 2/1!! - Finch9 on Jan 24
    7. Sticky vibes - Jen in TN on Jan 24
    8. So Glad to Hear! - ks on Jan 24
    9. Fingers crossed (and eyes and any other body part that might help!) - Erika on Jan 24
    10. Pulling for your little fighter! - Raindrops1 on Jan 24
    11. best wishes - Dee on Jan 24
    12. Mrs. McIrish - jmassage on Jan 24
    13. Wishing you well . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 24
    14. Go embies go! - Kenny on Jan 24
    15. Really hoping that blast has even more spunk (nt) - karma on Jan 24
    16. Sounds good! - Tracy on Jan 24
    17. My thoughts and prayers are with you - Margolis on Jan 24
    18. Here's hoping.... - Al on Jan 24
    19. Yayyyyy! - Sara Q on Jan 24
      1. Sara - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
        1. Ah, just saw that! ;) - Sara Q on Jan 25
    20. Hooray!!!! Go beta go!!! - Orchid on Jan 24
    21. Wishing you a productive 2ww ;) - Ariadne on Jan 24
    22. wishing you all the best mrs mcI nt.. - anon on Jan 24
    23. Mrs McIrish - THK on Jan 24
    24. Good luck from me too. (success ment) - diaphanta on Jan 25
    25. lots of good thoughts - Julie on Jan 25
    26. lurker - Kim on Jan 25
    27. Good Luck!!! - Rebekah on Jan 25
    28. Best of Luck - GulfGal on Jan 25
    29. best of luck - pbean on Jan 25
    30. I had 4 kids that were morulas - Pinkduck on Jan 25
    31. Fingers crossed here too - Hopeful72 on Jan 25
    32. Re: Thank you and an update - Eve on Jan 25
    33. Go team McIrish, go! - CrazyLady on Jan 26
    34. Praying that your little beans are snuggling in - Veesha on Jan 28
     
  8. Untitled View entire thread! - ladyt on Jan 23
    1. Of course! - CrazyLady on Jan 23
    2. Re: Untitled - Quinn on Jan 23
    3. Good luck to you! - thesameboat on Jan 24
    4. Good luck - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
    5. Good luck!! - DeeinNYC on Jan 24
    6. Hoping this is your time . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 24
    7. Good luck! nt - Kenny on Jan 24
    8. Good luck ! - al on Jan 24
    9. Love and good thoughts!!! - Orchid on Jan 25
    10. luck! - pbean on Jan 25
      1. Re: luck! - ladyt on Jan 28
     
  9. Official BFN on 1st DE fresh cycle View entire thread! - Rebekah on Jan 23
    1. Sorry to hear about BFN - CrazyLady on Jan 23
    2. Which kind of PIO? ethyl oleate was evil for me (success) - BlessedThistle on Jan 23
      1. Sesame I think - Rebekah on Jan 23
        1. I was allergic to sesame (success implied) - Jen in TN on Jan 23
    3. sorry (pg ment) - demomone on Jan 23
    4. so sorry.... - Melissa on Jan 23
    5. Sorryyyyyyyy - Ashley on Jan 23
    6. Re: Official BFN on 1st DE fresh cycle - Quinn on Jan 23
    7. I'm so sorry.. - Eve on Jan 23
    8. So sorry. - thesameboat on Jan 24
    9. Hugs - Erika on Jan 24
    10. Hugs - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
    11. So sorry; hoping your FETs will work out. - Maggie in VA on Jan 24
    12. Lots of his to you - DeeinNYC on Jan 24
    13. So sorry for the BFN - Kenny on Jan 24
    14. I'm so sorry - Al on Jan 24
    15. I'm really sorry - Orchid on Jan 24
    16. Sorry to hear your sad news - E&H on Jan 25
     
  10. Mrs. McIrish, good luck today View entire thread! - Moderator on Jan 23
    1. Yes, hoping things went better than expected . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 23
    2. DItto - CrazyLady on Jan 23
    3. Yes, all my best to you, your hsuband, and your embies - BlessedThistle on Jan 23
    4. Same here! - Jen in TN on Jan 23
    5. Thinking of you, sweetie - Dixiechic on Jan 23
    6. Sending all good thoughts - Tracy on Jan 23
    7. Good Luck from me too! - Violet on Jan 23
    8. We are all rooting for you - jmassage on Jan 23
    9. Thinking of you! - Mrs. M on Jan 23
    10. best wishes - keifel on Jan 23
    11. Sending you good thoughts today! nt - Raindrops1 on Jan 23
    12. Me too - Good luck! Sending positive thoughts your way! n/t - Sara Q on Jan 23
    13. Thinking of you and wishing you the best. - Margolis on Jan 23
    14. Thinking of you and wishing you the best. - Margolis on Jan 23
    15. Good luck!! - DeeinNYC on Jan 23
    16. Good Luck - Rebekah on Jan 23
    17. Thinking of you Mrs. McIrish - Erin on Jan 23
    18. Best wishes and hugs of support to you! - Eve on Jan 23
    19. Best Wishes to you Mrs. McIrish - futurebeauty on Jan 23
    20. Good luck! - thesameboat on Jan 24
     
  11. Denise (success/ kids) View entire thread! - Moderator on Jan 23
    1. Thank you - CrazyLady on Jan 23
    2. Thank you - Antonialisa on Jan 23
    3. THANK YOU - CocoBoston on Jan 23
    4. Well done, Kenny - Dixiechic on Jan 23
    5. Thank you!! - DeeinNYC on Jan 23
    6. well said - THK on Jan 23
    7. Here! Here! - ks on Jan 24
    8. Thank you - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
    9. Yesss!!!!! - BabyDance on Jan 24
    10. Thanks! - Anonymous on Jan 26
     
  12. CNY Albany vs RSC Lexington View entire thread! - CocoBoston on Jan 23
    1. Re: CNY Albany vs RSC Lexington - Dee on Jan 23
      1. Thanks Dee! - CocoBoston on Jan 23
        1. Re: Thanks Dee! - Dee on Jan 23
    2. Yes, curious as to why you'd limit your field . . . (pg ment) - Maggie in VA on Jan 23
      1. Thank you Maggie - Coco boston on Jan 23
        1. If you logged on to post the original message . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 23
          1. Also - Ginger on Jan 23
        2. Heard mixed feedback on RSC have had recent consults with - AC in Boston on Jan 24
    3. CNY... - CocoBoston on Jan 23
    4. Experience with RSC and SG - Anonymous on Jan 23
      1. Called SG - pricing - CocoBoston on Jan 23
        1. SG shared risk? - anon on Jan 23
          1. If a program was over $30K... - CocoBoston on Jan 23
            1. Pricing - Anonymous on Jan 23
              1. You were right anon - Anonymous on Jan 23
          2. Shared Risk - Have the numbers - Anonymous on Jan 23
    5. cycled there, success mentioned - anonrsc on Jan 23
    6. RSC success - keifel on Jan 23
    7. My thoughts - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
      1. screening donors - Dee on Jan 24
      2. Thanks Mrs. McIrish - CocoBoston on Feb 2
     
  13. Anybody use center for reproductive , NYC? Nt View entire thread! - Ashley on Jan 22
    1. Re: Anybody use center for reproductive , NYC? Nt - Totalb on Jan 25
     
  14. Friendships View entire thread! - Eve on Jan 22
    1. same thing - anon on Jan 23
    2. This is a frequent topic here . . . (kids ment) - Maggie in VA on Jan 23
    3. I feel where you're coming from (death of spouse, adoption, donated embryos, M/C ment) - CrazyLady on Jan 23
      1. Amen - Seymo on Jan 23
      2. Thanks, CL (Cancer ment'd) - Violet on Jan 23
    4. Great posts from Maggie and CL (success ment) - Jen in TN on Jan 23
      1. Re: well said, jen - CrazyLady on Jan 23
    5. wanted to say - anon on Jan 23
    6. Re: Friendships - Eve on Jan 23
    7. you are not alone (child ment) - True on Jan 23
    8. Yeah I did ( success ment) - THK on Jan 24
      1. Thank you THK - Eve on Jan 26
     
  15. What is going on with Cooper Inst.?? I cannot get in touch... View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 22
    1. They had a fire - BlessedThistle on Jan 22
     
  16. Phone consult What to expect? View entire thread! - Ashley on Jan 22
    1. Good Luck! - Rebekah on Jan 22
      1. Re: Good Luck! - Ashley on Jan 22
        1. Good Luck - Rebekah on Jan 23
          1. Re: Good Luck - Ashley on Jan 23
        2. Ps - Rebekah on Jan 23
    2. SG OOT graduate here (success ment) - Mrs. M on Jan 23
     
  17. Mrs. McIrish... View entire thread! - ks on Jan 22
    1. In your corner too (success ment) - Julie on Jan 22
      1. Thanks - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 22
        1. I am truly hoping for you. - thesameboat on Jan 22
    2. Mrs. McIrish....(hug) (adoption mentioned) - Sara Q (from the other board) on Jan 22
      1. Wow, just read the thread a few below.... - Sara Q on Jan 23
        1. Sara Q - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 24
    3. Hugs - Crazy Lady on Jan 22
    4. Hugs - Hopeful72 on Jan 22
    5. same here - Dee on Jan 22
    6. Mrs. McIrish - jmassage on Jan 22
    7. Thinking of you - LadyG on Jan 22
     
  18. DE has not been a good experience for me View entire thread! - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
    1. How terribly disappointing - Renata on Jan 21
    2. similar story - anon on Jan 21
      1. similar story - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
        1. can't make a day 5 embryo either (success ment) - anon on Jan 21
          1. can't make a day 5 embryo either - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
            1. so sorry - anon on Jan 22
    3. Re: DE has not been a good experience for me - karma on Jan 21
    4. this is so disappointing and I'm so sorry (success mentioned) - smrc on Jan 21
    5. Re: DE has not been a good experience for me - DeeinNYC on Jan 21
      1. Thanks - Ms. McIish on Jan 21
        1. (((Mrs. McIrish))) - Ariadne on Jan 21
        2. so sorry - ano on Jan 22
    6. That really sucks - E&H on Jan 21
      1. 3dt - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
    7. I am sorry - Dee on Jan 21
    8. Thinking of you:) - Nancy77 on Jan 21
    9. Re: DE has not been a good experience for me - Denise on Jan 21
      1. more- - Denise on Jan 21
        1. Done - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
          1. Re: Done - Denise on Jan 21
    10. Unfair (success mentioned) - MM on Jan 21
    11. Re: DE has not been a good experience for me - Antonialisa on Jan 21
    12. I'm so sorry - Ariadne on Jan 21
    13. I'm really sorry - Anonymous on Jan 21
      1. Re: I'm really sorry - Anonymous on Jan 21
        1. Wow - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
          1. Re: Wow - Anonymous on Jan 21
        2. Re: I'm really sorry - Dee on Jan 21
          1. Re: I'm really sorry - Anonymous on Jan 22
            1. Not necessarily - Ariadne on Jan 22
              1. Thank you Ariadne - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 22
              2. absolutely agree - anon on Jan 22
            2. Great - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 22
              1. Re: Great - Anonymous on Jan 22
                1. not really - Dee on Jan 22
                  1. Re: not really - Anonymous on Jan 22
                    1. You know, anonymous, you're being rather a tool - BlessedThistle on Jan 22
                      1. Re: You know, anonymous, you're being rather a tool - Anonymous on Jan 22
                        1. How would you know... - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
                          1. Re: How would you know... - Anonymous on Jan 22
                            1. Re: How would you know... - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
                          2. I agree - Antonialisa on Jan 22
                            1. Re: I agree - Anonymous on Jan 22
                        2. Honey, you're a complete asshole and further are speculating exaclty as others are here - BlessedThistle on Jan 22
                          1. Re: Honey, you're a complete asshole and further are speculating exaclty as others are here - Anonymous on Jan 22
                            1. Re: Honey, you're a complete asshole and further are speculating exaclty as others are here - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
                            2. You said you were presenting facts, not fantasy - BlessedThistle on Jan 22
                              1. Re: You said you were presenting facts, not fantasy - Anonymous on Jan 22
                                1. Re: You said you were presenting facts, not fantasy - Anonymous on Jan 22
                                  1. Re: You said you were presenting facts, not fantasy - Anonymous on Jan 22
                                    1. What is it? - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
                                      1. Re: What is it? - Anonymous on Jan 22
                                        1. Re: What is it? - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
                                          1. Re: What is it? - Anonymous on Jan 22
                                            1. Re: What is it? - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
                      2. I don't know quite where to put this but had to respond - Julie on Jan 22
                        1. another green girl here... - zane on Jan 23
                    2. The bottom line, anonymous, - Ariadne on Jan 22
            3. Not true at all - DeeinNYC on Jan 22
        3. This is Denise posting, just ignore her. nt - Moderator on Jan 23
    14. Mrs. McIrish- - Erin on Jan 21
      1. Thanks. N/t - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
    15. Thanks to all for the support. N/t - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 21
      1. my two cents... - Eve on Jan 22
    16. Not one for platitudes in general anyway . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 21
    17. it is a very tough row to hoe (success ment) - Golda on Jan 22
    18. I am really sorry that you are at this point. I do think - Daisy on Jan 22
    19. big hug - samys on Jan 22
    20. Oh that's just heartbreaking.... - Al on Jan 22
    21. I'm sorry, Mrs. McIrish - Leeba on Jan 22
      1. Barge, I remember that study . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 22
        1. I know, hopefully they got consent first! - Leeba on Jan 22
          1. Re: I know, hopefully they got consent first! - mary on Jan 23
    22. I'm so sorry Mrs McIrish.. and with you.. - BabyDance on Jan 27
     
  19. cause of 2 chemical pgs with 2 FET blasts? View entire thread! - Katya on Jan 21
    1. Re: cause of 2 chemical pgs with 2 FET blasts? - Dee on Jan 21
    2. Re: cause of 2 chemical pgs with 2 FET blasts? - DeeinNYC on Jan 21
    3. 2 chemicals here too - zane on Jan 23
     
  20. just thinking, anyone know about donor embryo at SIRM NY? Details? View entire thread! - anon for this.. on Jan 20
    1. don't know but - Dee on Jan 24
     
  21. After a failed fresh cycle what is the protocol for FET? View entire thread! - Rebekah on Jan 20
    1. I don't know the answer but... - Eve on Jan 20
    2. Re: After a failed fresh cycle what is the protocol for FET? - Anonymous on Jan 21
    3. I m sorry to hear that:( - Ashley on Jan 22
     
  22. Books to read? View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 20
    1. Hi. I would really recommend you have a look at the - Daisy on Jan 20
    2. what she said - Al on Jan 21
    3. What I tell my kids at 3 (not that it means much to them)... - BlessedThistle on Jan 21
     
  23. expenses View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 20
    1. I remember that feeling...a sinking feeling...(child ment/pg ment) - Hope2009 on Jan 20
    2. We lived off of DH's salary - thesameboat on Jan 20
    3. What we did - Rebekah on Jan 20
    4. borrowed $ from mom and dad - Antonialisa on Jan 20
    5. Follow up question for everyone - Anonymous on Jan 20
      1. Re: Follow up question for everyone - Antonialisa on Jan 20
      2. Our breakdown . . . - Rebekah on Jan 20
      3. I don't know exactly (children from DE mentioned) - thesameboat on Jan 21
      4. Cornell costs - smrc on Jan 21
      5. alot - anon on Jan 21
    6. Well, a few things . . . (kids ment) ETA - Maggie in VA on Jan 20
    7. Yes, very expensive. (baby mentioned) - Raindrops1 on Jan 21
      1. Guaranteed cycles. - Raindrops1 on Jan 21
    8. could have paid off my mortgage easily - Al on Jan 21
      1. definitely never heard of anyone regretting spending this money and having kids - anon on Jan 21
    9. home equity loan - anon on Jan 21
    10. $36,000 for my first de ivf - Eve on Jan 22
    11. Foreign clinic saved me - Aufrecht on Jan 22
      1. which foreign clinic was that? - Dee on Jan 24
        1. Intersono - Aufrecht on Jan 24
     
  24. Hey Violet, you out there? View entire thread! - Lisa on Jan 19
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  26. Free fertility related videos online View entire thread! - Tracy on Jan 18
    1. Hey Tracy ! :) - Al on Jan 19
      1. I got a lot out of them - Tracy on Jan 19
     
  27. 8dp5dt too early? View entire thread! - Rebekah on Jan 18
    1. For my + cycle it would have been - thesameboat on Jan 19
    2. Re: 8dp5dt too early? - Anonymous on Jan 19
    3. Too early in my case - Orchid on Jan 21
     
  28. day 5 vs day 6 transfer View entire thread! - AutumnLeavesFalling on Jan 17
    1. FET was of 2 Day 6 blasts (success ment) - Julie on Jan 18
    2. Similar . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 18
    3. I am guessing - Antonialisa on Jan 18
    4. I had this discussion with my RE - RaineyCat on Jan 18
    5. I had a day 6 fresh transfer that worked - thesameboat on Jan 19
     
  29. Number of follicles at CD7 View entire thread! - Snowflake on Jan 17
    1. What I think - E&H on Jan 17
     
  30. cold feet and about to start DE cycle View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 17
    1. I think it's normal, I did the same thing - Rebekah on Jan 17
    2. Some observations . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 17
    3. Thoughts - Violet on Jan 17
    4. It is a difficult dilemma. What I would ask is that - Daisy on Jan 17
      1. thank you for all your thoughts... (OE mentioned) - pbean on Jan 17
        1. I am 36 now . . . (OE dd ment + current DE transfer) - Rebekah on Jan 17
        2. there are clinics that will let you use your own and DE - anon on Jan 21
          1. clinics that will let you do OE + DE - anon on Jan 22
    5. yes- I had cold feet too (baby ment) - karma on Jan 17
    6. the best stats are - THK on Jan 17
    7. update - Anonymous on Jan 19
      1. That's a great update....m (fet success ment) - Hope2009 on Jan 20
    8. These are my thoughts, (child ment/pg ment)...m - Hope2009 on Jan 20
     
  31. My donor just backed out! View entire thread! - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 16
    1. wtf is wrong with her? - BlessedThistle on Jan 16
      1. words fail me…. - LateStarter394 on Jan 17
    2. Devastating - Antonialisa on Jan 16
    3. Re: My donor just backed out! - Denise on Jan 16
      1. Agreed completely! - CocoBoston on Jan 19
    4. WTF!!!!! - jmassage on Jan 16
    5. I am so sorry - E&H on Jan 16
      1. Re: I am so sorry - Denise on Jan 16
    6. I am sorry - Dee on Jan 16
      1. Re: I am sorry - mary on Jan 16
    7. WTF!?!?!? - ks on Jan 16
    8. So very sorry - DeeinNYC on Jan 16
    9. Re: My donor just backed out! - Quinn on Jan 16
      1. I am really sorry - Hopeful72 on Jan 16
    10. unbelievable - Eve on Jan 16
    11. My 1st donor backed out on us, but what a blessing! (child ment) - Veesha on Jan 16
    12. I am so sorry. - thesameboat on Jan 17
    13. Really sorry - demomone on Jan 17
    14. Re: My donor just backed out! - pbean on Jan 17
    15. I'm so sorry!! - Rebekah on Jan 17
    16. happened to me -- devastating -- don't throw it in (success ment) - Julie on Jan 17
    17. {{{Hugs!}}} - Maggie in VA on Jan 17
    18. Although I am really sorry for Mrs McIrish, am I the only - Daisy on Jan 17
      1. Re: Although I am really sorry for Mrs McIrish, am I the only - Denise on Jan 17
        1. Sorry Denise. Thank you for your comment. - Daisy on Jan 17
          1. Donor was not a new donor - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 17
            1. Re: Donor was not a new donor - Denise on Jan 17
          2. Re: Sorry Denise. Thank you for your comment. - Denise on Jan 17
      2. excellent compassionate response, Daisy - anon on Jan 17
      3. get what you are saying - Julie on Jan 18
        1. agree - Dee on Jan 19
    19. Oh no!!!!! So sorry, Mrs. McI... that is terrible.. - BabyDance on Jan 17
      1. Re: Oh no!!!!! So sorry, Mrs. McI... that is terrible.. - Anonymous on Jan 17
    20. Have they given you a reason yet? - E&H on Jan 17
     
  32. Europe IVF View entire thread! - Lisa on Jan 16
    1. I don't know that one. - thesameboat on Jan 16
    2. I haven't, but try fertilityfriends.co.uk . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 16
    3. Agreed that Fertility Friends is a good website for - Daisy on Jan 16
      1. Thanks for bringing this up . . . (kids ment) - Maggie in VA on Jan 16
    4. Don't know that one but, - aw2006 on Jan 20
      1. ditto - Aoife1 on Jan 23
    5. Re: Europe IVF - Dee on Jan 21
     
  33. Those annoying ads - info. for some of the newer members View entire thread! - Ariadne on Jan 15
    1. Nope, I've paid the last year myself - Kenny on Jan 16
      1. This is such a PITA. - Kenny on Jan 16
        1. See below. Their appearance is sporadic. Very odd. nt - Ariadne on Jan 16
      2. Oh, no - Ariadne on Jan 16
     
  34. Mrs. McIrish View entire thread! - jmassage on Jan 15
    1. Hi - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 15
      1. Gkad to hear (pg ment.) - jmassage on Jan 15
        1. Syracuse - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 15
    2. Mrs. McIrish! - Antonialisa on Jan 15
      1. Thx - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 16
        1. I hear you - CrazyLady on Jan 16
     
  35. Any Ob suggestions in Delaware? View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 15
    1. All About Women - Anonymous on Jan 16
      1. That was me - Finch9 on Jan 16
        1. Re: That was me - Anonymous on Jan 16
     
  36. Some leakage with progesterone suppositories View entire thread! - Violet on Jan 15
    1. Suppositories - LateStarter 394 on Jan 15
    2. Totally normal ...success mentioned - Christine on Jan 15
      1. Christine! Thanks~ - Violet on Jan 16
        1. Babies and mom are doing well - Christine on Jan 18
     
  37. Subchorionic Hemtoma (preg ment) View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 15
    1. Hey, read the thread below . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 15
      1. thank you - Anonymous on Jan 15
      2. It took about 5-6 days. - Maggie in VA on Jan 16
        1. Re: It took about 5-6 days. - Anonymous on Jan 16
    2. Re: Subchorionic Hemtoma (preg ment) - Quinn on Jan 15
      1. Re: Subchorionic Hemtoma (preg ment) - Anonymous on Jan 16
     
  38. Question for QUINN View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 15
    1. Re: Question for QUINN - Quinn on Jan 15
      1. Re: Question for QUINN - Anonymous on Jan 16
        1. Re: Question for QUINN - Quinn on Jan 16
     
  39. Moderators - ? about advertisement insert showing up on top of board View entire thread! - anon on Jan 15
    1. im seeing it too. - Anonymous on Jan 15
    2. yes Its coming up on every click on here now.. - Eve on Jan 15
    3. Mod here - sorry I haven't seen any ads? - Kenny on Jan 16
     
  40. can too many blood draws cause harm? View entire thread! - hope2bpg on Jan 15
    1. you're good - green.elephant on Jan 15
    2. No, you're OK! (kids mentioned in passing) - thesameboat on Jan 15
      1. thank you, more - hope2bpg on Jan 15
        1. If you need the veins - thesameboat on Jan 15
        2. Re: thank you, more - green.elephant on Jan 16
    3. No harm but last time I was told I had scarring and that it was hard to find my vein - Orchid on Jan 15
     
  41. Eggs to embryo stats View entire thread! - LateStarter394 on Jan 14
    1. Need more info, but some rough guidelines - Anonymous on Jan 14
    2. Sorry, just reread your post (chemical, success ment) - Anonymous on Jan 14
      1. I don't know if my result is normal - Eve on Jan 14
        1. Re: I don't know if my result is normal - Anonymous on Jan 15
    3. quality not quantity - green.elephant on Jan 15
      1. totally agree - Dee on Jan 15
      2. Onwards and Upwards - LateStarter394 on Jan 15
    4. I had no good blasts.. - Mrs. McIrish on Jan 15
      1. Re: I had no good blasts.. - Dee on Jan 15
        1. Re: I had no good blasts.. - LateStarter 394 on Jan 15
          1. Re: I had no good blasts.. - Dee on Jan 15
     
  42. upcoming cycle - don't feel positive View entire thread! - anon on Jan 14
    1. Re: upcoming cycle - don't feel positive - Anonymous on Jan 14
    2. {{{Hugs}}}, the only way to stop worrying . . . - Maggie in VA on Jan 14
    3. (successes and failures mentioned) - BlessedThistle on Jan 14
    4. I'm not sure age really affects it that much - Orchid on Jan 14
      1. I mean emotionally difficult, not physically - Orchid on Jan 14
    5. You will be ok trust me :) - THK on Jan 15
    6. Re: upcoming cycle - don't feel positive - Quinn on Jan 15
      1. 2006 is about for me too... - Orchid on Jan 15
     
  43. Any update for us Eve? I am guessing transfer was yesterday? View entire thread! - BlessedThistle on Jan 14
    1. Re: Any update for us Eve? I am guessing transfer was yesterday? - Quinn on Jan 15
    2. Thank you for thinking of me! - Eve on Jan 15
      1. latest update - Eve on Jan 15
     
  44. Quinn good luck today! (pg ment) View entire thread! - colleen on Jan 14
    1. Thank you so much - Quinn on Jan 15
      1. I'm so happy to hear this!!! (child ment) - Colleen on Jan 15
      2. Yay!!!! That's wonderful!!!! - Orchid on Jan 15
    2. yeah good luck - Orchid on Jan 15
    3. Re: Quinn good luck today! (pg ment) - Quinn on Jan 15
    4. wonderful! - Eve on Jan 15
     
  45. Consulting with RE (age ment.) View entire thread! - Dee on Jan 13
    1. Do you mean using your own eggs, or donor? - Renata on Jan 13
      1. I meant D/E - Dee on Jan 13
        1. Re: I meant D/E - Anonymous on Jan 13
        2. OK. If you're healthy, all is well! - Renata on Jan 13
    2. No one brought it up with me. Ever. - Anon on Jan 13
      1. true - Dee on Jan 13
        1. We patients really need to advocate for ourselves - Renata on Jan 13
          1. Amen to that, Renata! (successful cycle and child mentioned in passing) - thesameboat on Jan 15
      2. THANK YOU TO ANON - CocoBoston on Jan 19
    3. Re: Consulting with RE (age ment.) - Eve on Jan 14
    4. Get a new OB/GYN ETA - Maggie in VA on Jan 14
      1. thanks and also (question about ashermans) - Dee on Jan 14
        1. It was banding . . . (pg ment) - Maggie in VA on Jan 14
          1. thanks, and (a few questions) - Dee on Jan 14
            1. While my RE at the U.S. clinic tried to . . . (bad stuff , kids ment) - Maggie in VA on Jan 16
              1. thanks, Zlin is on my list now - Dee on Jan 21
    5. 47 at birth of 2nd kid (kids mentioned) - anon on Jan 22
     
  46. Clinics in NY city View entire thread! - Ashley on Jan 12
    1. CNY Fertility clinic Syracuse NY - Denise on Jan 12
    2. do you mean - demomone on Jan 12
      1. Re: do you mean - Ashley on Jan 13
        1. Yes - demomone on Jan 13
          1. NYU and question for demomone - Summer on Jan 13
            1. NYU - demomone on Jan 13
              1. Thank you for the quick response. - Summer on Jan 13
              2. Insurance - Ashley on Jan 13
                1. Re: Insurance - Denise on Jan 13
                  1. NYU/Insurance - demomone on Jan 14
                  2. Re: Insurance - Ashley on Jan 15
                    1. Re: Insurance - Denise on Jan 15
          2. Re: Yes - Ashley on Jan 13
            1. Re: Yes - Summer on Jan 14
              1. when we cycled - demomone on Jan 14
    3. warning about CNY - Anonymous on Jan 14
      1. Re: warning about CNY - Denise on Jan 14
      2. Also they are upstate - ekb88 on Jan 14
        1. Re: Also they are upstate - Denise on Jan 14
      3. I was considering CNY but - Dee on Jan 16
        1. Re: I was considering CNY but - Ashley on Jan 16
          1. SG - Dee on Jan 17
            1. Re: SG - Ashley on Jan 20
     
  47. Indian Donors in the Bay Area View entire thread! - anon on Jan 12
    1. Re: Indian Donors in the Bay Area - Anonymous on Jan 12
      1. more info please - Anonymous on Jan 13
        1. Re: more info please - Anonymous on Jan 13
     
  48. 2ww . . . nervous about confidence (prev OE dd ment) View entire thread! - Rebekah on Jan 12
    1. Re: 2ww . . . nervous about confidence (prev OE dd ment) - Anonymous on Jan 12
    2. Well, every person and every pregnancy is different but - thesameboat on Jan 12
    3. Could Be - DeeinNYC on Jan 12
     
  49. other boards View entire thread! - Anonymous on Jan 11
    1. I would recommend Fertility Friends which is a UK - Daisy on Jan 11
    2. Re: other boards - DeeinNYC on Jan 11
      1. Should be... - DeeinNYC on Jan 11
     
  50. To Rebecca... Did you have your transfer? Nt View entire thread! - Ashley on Jan 11
    1. If this is for me . . . yes - Rebekah on Jan 11
      1. Good luck! - thesameboat on Jan 11
      2. you are PUPO! Thinking of you (success ment) - Julie on Jan 11
      3. Re: If this is for me . . . yes - Ashley on Jan 11
      4. Thanks!! - Rebekah on Jan 12
     
  51. Wanted to give some praise for R.BA (cancer, OE ment) View entire thread! - Alli on Jan 10
    1. And sorry for typos! On IPad nt - Alli on Jan 10
    2. That is a great story! - Jen in TN on Jan 10
      1. Always wanted to hi to you - Alli on Jan 10
      2. Always wanted to hi to you - Alli on Jan 10
        1. ;-) - Jen in TN on Jan 11
    3. thanks for posting - Julie on Jan 10
    4. That's great!! - DeeinNYC on Jan 10
      1. Thanks Dee - Alli on Jan 10
    5. Great post - THK on Jan 11
    6. So happy to hear this worked out! - Piper on Jan 11
      1. I will! - Alli on Jan 12
    7. You are a good friend Alli. - Margolis on Jan 13
      1. A very good friend - Mimi on Jan 13
    8. :( Super bummed - Alli on Jan 15
      1. Re: :( Super bummed - Denise on Jan 16
     
 
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