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wanna baby (no login)
Posted Jul 3, 2009 1:01 PM
but we are the biological mom. Look up the definition of biological mother if you don't agree. It is one who carries and gives birth to an offspring. We carry and give birth. I am the REAL mother.
"Do you want to know about sisters and brothers from your bioligal mom? Do you feel like your "Real" family is out there somewhere? I say for me biology does not make a mother, does not make a family. "
I would rather my daughter know her truth. If handled properly, and let's face it, there are more and more of these situations, it will be no big deal. Adoption is no longer a big deal, so may celebrities etc, use DE so why is it something we have to hide and be ashamed of? I am blessed by this option. I am thankful for it. I am not hiding it. I am just not telling everyone I meet. I have never been asked if my child is DE. When people says she looks just like her father, I agree with them. Many say she looks like me and I laugh and say, no, she looks just like her daddy. When people say she doesn't look like me, I agree. It's not a big deal. I don't go into explaining it and people don't ask. |
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