my husband has no sperm, so he has never been in the equation except for the one or two sperm they found and then we did ICSI/IVF.
This friend is no longer married and has two young kids of her own, so she says she will ask a friend of hers to donate. All very odd I know, but if it gets me a baby I am happy.
Spoke to our social worker today and she said she could come to SA have the baby and say she wants to put it up for adoption. Otherwise papers have to be signed before hand and since it is not my husbands sperm, it is not really surrogacy.