I am new to this site. I, too, have done everything under the sun! 2 rounds ending in m/c because of egg quality issues. Moving on to DE next month! Scared but excited. My husband sounds just like yours :0) thanks for the post. I agree, there is no easy answer. I just knew, in my heart, it was time to walk away from the blackjack table in hopes of the big pay off with my own eggs...on to a new game, with a much bigger payoff for us!