Pandora (Login Pandora-VA) Posted Feb 17, 2011 6:44 AM
I understand where your DH is coming from and the fear that it will not work. But, this is YOUR body and your risk (along with any risk to any potential babies). If you do not feel comfortable transferring three (and I would not) stand up for yourself and tell him that it is really out of the question. Follow your gut on this one. What I have found with my DH is that he might make a pronouncement on something...only to change his mind later when it didn't work out as we hoped. For example, I did an FET over the summer and he was basically like, this should be our last try. It didn't work. We sat a few weeks and I brought up the idea of trying "one more time" and he all for it as if he had never said that the one over the summer should be the last try. So, even if your DH claims this is your one and only shot he may come around to the idea of one more try. I wish you all the best.