It is certainly not taboo--many people have a very tough time giving up a genetic connection and need the closure that the failed IVF cycles will give them. Sort of the need to exhaust option number one before moving to other treatments...
Are you currently in treatment by an RE? The reason I ask is that repeated pregnancy loss can be due to other factors that have nothing to do with egg quality. And, unfortunately, using donor eggs will not help.
You did not give your age- but if you are under 40, especially if you are under 35, I would have very comprehensive testing before moving to IVF- either with your eggs or with donor eggs.
I am so sorry you have been through so much loss and I hope you have some answers soon.