Maggie in VA (Login maggie1961) Posted Feb 28, 2011 1:05 PM
I'll be interested in what others say, but the thing is, no shared risk plan is no shared risk plan. I would hate to go back to a clinic I didn't like as much, too, but one reason I went overseas -- and I started at a top dollar clinic, too -- was the conviction I arrived at reading this board that you don't want to sink too much cash into any one DE cycle. And I was in the same boat: I didn't want to not have enough money to try to adopt (especially as getting to that point was going to entail an expensive divorce ) if it looked as though DE just wouldn't work for me.
Mind sharing which clinics you're using? The ladies here have been at practically every clinic in the country (and many around the globe), and may have some more useful insight. I'm sorry: I know how awful it is to just see the cash go down the drain with nothing but heartache to show for it.