But I don't have any issues about this so I hope this doesn't make you uncomfortable.
I'm 'tell' all the way. I want my child to know their origins. But that doesn't necessarily mean that it has to be specific--general is OK too "some very nice people..."
I've got it all planned out in my head how I'd do it. Baby seeds, etc. for the younger child. Hah. Hope I get a chance to do this....someday anyway!
I don't know . I know the whole thing is weird. I'm not freaking out and desperate-I'm pretty relaxed right now and feel like I'm going to get what I need and I have some time to think things through. Maybe this will change.