THK , thanks for your input . This is my first donor egg cycle . I do realise that it may not work , but I am having a hard time even thinking rationally about this . I am banking on this cycle working , I dont have the strength to take another failure . I guess I should just let things take their own course and not overthink the situation . I do not know anyone with DE . It is not accepted in East Indian culture as it is in other cultures and my suspicion is most people are not telling , so keeping in touch with Another DE couple is not likely to happen . I will have to see how the cycle goes , with the high cost I have to see how this cycle goes before thinking of another cycle .